Let’s look at the following situation: Two friends drinking beer are discussing the modern trend of healthy living:
"I need to go to the gym. But I hate running."
"I like running, but I can't stand a crowd at the gym."
The phrases “Я (не) люблю + Acc./inf”, “Мне (не) нравится + Nom./inf” and “Я терпеть не могу + Acc./inf” attach an infinitive or a noun in the accusative/nominative cases and are used in describing already formed habits or long-held opinions that don’t change by the minute. In this context, “Я люблю” and “Мне нравится” are completely interchangeable. For example, if you wish to emphasize your love for a morning cup of coffee, both are applicable: “Я люблю пить кофе по утрам” and “Мне нравится пить кофе по утрам”.
It’s a different matter when we’re talking about a person (or other living beings). Confessing one’s sympathy (or lack thereof) is done with the verb “нравиться”, whereas deeper sentiments are most often described with the word “любить”:
"I like you!"
"I love you!"
Let’s look at the next situation. Three girlfriends meet at a club. The atmosphere is great and so is the music. One of the girls asks the others:
"How do you like this music?"
"Nothing special. It will do."
"I love it!"
In rating an event, the verb ‘любить’ is not used. If the opinion is motivated by a specific situation, you would need to use the phrase “Мне нра́вится” (present tense, imperfect) or “Мне понра́вилось” (past perfect), if the event happened in the past or is already over. But if what is happening isn’t causing you to feel any particularly special emotions, then the question “Как тебе?” can be responded to with a simple shrug of your shoulders, and the phrase “Так себе. Ничего особенного. Сойдёт”.
Ways of issuing value judgements. Grammatical characteristics
Expression of a longstanding opinion, preferences:
Expression of a situational opinion:
If using any of Russia Beyond's content, partly or in full, always provide an active hyperlink to the original material.
to our newsletter!
Get the week's best stories straight to your inbox