People who have experienced years of deficit, just cannot throw out anything./ V. Titov/TASS
Ever walked past an apartment block in Russia and noticed a series of balconies bulging out the side, packed tight with God knows what? Old wooden skis, broken radios, car parts, unwanted relatives...absolutely anything. Well, this is one symptom of the Soviet hangover. Inside the apartments cupboards, shelves, and wardrobes will most likely be full of useless gubbins as well - some Russians just can’t face throwing things away.
During the USSR, discarding stuff was considered wasteful and this habit has stuck. It seems you just never know when you aunt’s rusty toenail clippers may come in handy, or that jar of pickled onions 20 years past its sell-by date. Soviet families also very rarely chucked food in the garbage. Even if the dish was on the verge of turning green it could always be saved, like grenki orkartoshka cake.
In the years of USSR people lived with the dream about the bright future of communism / V. Akimov/RIA Novosti
Many Russians keep several beautiful sets of crystal or porcelain hidden away in their cupboards. Usually these sets were given to them as presents for weddings, anniversaries, or birthdays. So they were, and still are, very cherished. However, they are almost never used.
You’re probably more likely to see a Russian crack a smile to a stranger in the street (see 5) or sing the American national anthem than wheel out their best china. Their everyday plates. cups, bowls, and cutlery might be cracked and old, but it’s almost guaranteed the good stuff will be collecting dust somewhere safe. The reason: During the Soviet Union people dreamed of a brighter communist future, so saved their most treasured belongings for a more prosperous time.
This mindset applies to clothes as well, with dresses and suits tucked away without being worn for so long that when the time did come, they were out of fashion. Today, some Russians still don't unwrap the TV remote from the polyethylene wrapping, to avoid scratching it.
This is a bad habit to make decisions looking at others and fearing their condemnation. / Fred Grinberg/RIA Novosti
“What are you doing? What will people say? Can’t you see how that woman is looking at you?” Soviet parents were usually pretty tough when it came to teaching their children to be weary of strangers, neighbors, classmates, etc. This might sound far-fetched, but it was a genuine fear back then. To this day in Russia people may treat foreigners with a little suspicion: Why would anyone choose to visit freezing, brutal Russia, unless they had been sent by a foreign secret service, right?
Russian people feel themselves very uncomfortably when somebody is trying to take care of them. / Viktor Sadchikov/TASS
Well, this trait isn’t exclusively Russian. English people also find it hard to accept praise, most of them anyway. But Russians do have a reputation for feeling uncomfortable if someone pays them undue attention. For instance, if a salesperson gets too friendly in a shop, they will probably walk away without buying anything. Modesty seems to be the best policy in Russia - making an exhibition of yourself in the Soviet Union was frowned upon (refer to 3).
Russians do smile, but mainly at people they know. / Igor Utkin/TASS
Anyone who has visited the country will know this fact all too well - Russians very rarely smile at strangers, unlike Englishmen and Americans who stroll around grinning from ear to ear at everyone and anyone like madmen.
Keeping a straight face was part and parcel of life in the Soviet Union. There was much distrust, upheaval, people moving countries, and a lot of the time not much to smile about. Of course there was plenty to smile about as well, and some good jokes emerged from the era:
“Three men are sitting in a cell in the (KGB headquarters) Dzerzhinsky Square. The first asks the second why he has been imprisoned, who replies, ‘Because I criticized Karl Radek.’ The first man responds, ‘But I am here because I spoke out in favor of Radek!’ They turn to the third man who has been sitting quietly in the back, and ask him why he is in jail. He answers, ‘I'm Karl Radek.’ ”
But the old Russian proverb still rings true: Laughter without reason is a sign of idiocy. If you can get a Russian you’ve never met before to crack a smile, pat yourself on the back.
Note: Just because Russians don’t smile, it doesn’t mean they are not friendly. There is such a thing as “cold love”!
Russians adore large and long feasts and usually gather all their friends and relatives. / Boris Kavashkin/RIA Novosti
Russians adore huge feasts lasting hours and hours with friends and relatives. They love to spend hours at the dinner table eating classic Russian dishes like Olivier salad, pelmeni, and shchi - just like in the USSR. There will probably be a fair amount of booze involved and many toasts to everything under the sun. Russian say: “If dinner reaches the dessert, the party is a failure.”
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